The Amusement Park Of Seduction

Nobody likes looking like an idiot. Especially in front of people that are important.

Now, I’m pretty sure not looking like an idiot is high on everybody’s list of priorities, but looking like an idiot in front of folks you’ll never see again is not nearly as bad as looking like an idiot in front people you know, and you know are never going to let you forget it website .

This is maybe why it’s a lot easier to succeed with girls when you’re on vacation. You’re much more likely to have a “don’t care” attitude, which paradoxically, is much more useful than trying to plan every single step, sentence, and escalation as if you’re playing in a world championship chess match.

If only there were a way to have that “vacation” mind set, wherever you go.

One way is to simply accept that things will rarely go as planned. She won’t respond to your openers like you hope, often times when you try a kino escalation she won’t be ready, and you will NEVER get even close to a 100% number closing efficiency.

So if you have your heart set on any particular success, you will eventually be let down. Nobody’s perfect. Even the Grand Master Alphas from all time get shut down by their own ladies.

(More often than they’d like you to think).

And if you tie your self-image into your success rate, it’s VERY easy to beat yourself up.

One way is to simply tell yourself, before you enter any establishment, or any conversation, is to tell yourself that you’re on vacation.

See it like you’d see going to the amusement park, or watching a movie you don’t know much about.

You’re overall goal is to have a good time. But as for the specifics, you just let whatever happens happen.

Most folks don’t go to an amusement park with a specific list of rides to go on in a specific order, complete with planned meal breaks. You just show up and have fun with whatever’s available.

The great paradox of seduction is if you approach any kind of interaction, or even a new relationship, with this kind of relaxed, “I’ll just have fun, and see what happens,” attitude, you’ll have much more success.

You’ll come across as a guy who’s happy and comfortable in his own skin, and who NEVER desperately chases girls as if his life depended on it.